Friday, June 09, 2006

complexity

Hurm...

What should be done when a single parent falls in love with another single parent, and it so happens what their kids fell in love with each other?

Sould the love of the parents be sacrificed for the sake of their children's, or the other way around?surely, the kids can never be in love together if their parents are married to one another eh?

You think?

8 comments:

jacintha said...

Wat kind of question is this godfather? Holiday too bored edi issit?...=P

-tha-

nwcx said...

wow you've asked a valid question. weird though but its good question.
my answer would be very simple.. if both the single parents are in love with each other then by all means and their children can still be together. scientifically speaking both child are from diff family.. and the parents can still be parents. plus if you look it at a moral point of view. there is no need for the parents to "break up" for the kids cuz they are from a diff family.. you'll only have 1 set of parents lor instead of the normal 2 sets. the kids will have an awesome story for their kids too.

btw you experiencing it ah? hahah dont worry la ... commit it to God. He holds tomorrow :) dont worry be happy!

zefiriel said...

jloke : aler... :( I busy jaga kedai all day la... Watch tv suddenly terfikir onli mer. :P

What do you think? Maybe one day one of the little kids you're "pastoring" come to face the same problem leh. Huhu.

zefiriel said...

nwcx : cis, I have issue that's complicated, but not this complicated ler...

Are you sure they can be together? I also think it should be ok, but then don't you feel like it's weird?

If the parents are married to one another, by right, they're "siblings" now, though not by blood...

Analytically, it should be ok for both generations to get together, but still... weird larhhh.... LOL.

.:mysh:. said...

you humour me. you think too much. but still it's a thought. at first i thought, heyy, the parents had lived their lives, so let the kids live theirs.. sacrifice lor.. but then as i thought further - it would be soo weird, since if they're kids are married to each other, they would naturally be seeing so much of each other, and if they had feelings for each other.. mien.!

a hard question you ask. one without a proper correct answer. hm.

still..
i miss our chats.

i should go download YM like now now now.

laterz >:D<

zefiriel said...

michie : I can't help it if random thoughts come hammering at my brain ma... :(

Ya, I thought about that too. They're "mature" enough to live a life of undeveloped love, but then it'll be so sadddd.... :P

This is like a mobius ring that revolves around the question of ethics, moral, and logic. If they cannot, then cannot larh, but if it's ok, why not?

Life and love's more complicated now eh? ;)

And I miss our chats too. I doubt we can do that often when you start working. But still, the memories of it remains, right? ;)

For now, ja! >:D<

revivar said...

ask a sitcom director, and he'll tell you to let both the couple to be together and stay in a same house.

ask a conservative malaysian, and he'll tell you to avoid either one relationship.

ask me, i'll tell you to go ahead with it.

Perspectives.

we're human, thus we have unique mindset. don't worry too much tho, you know these stuffs can never be justified for right or wrong.

zefiriel said...

revivar : ahahaha. i didn't know you visit me blog. :D thanks for dropping by.

but still, there are reasons to the beliefs and restrictions held by our forefathers.

shouldn't we look into why are laws and rules the way they are, instead of just dismissing them with the reasoning that the time has changed and their thoughts no longer fit into our culture and life?

and sorry for the late reply. :P